Male Bonding
June 30, 2009
It rained for the entire past week so when the sun came out for a few hours this weekend my husband went out to mow before the neighbors could start to complain. Our son, Aiden, decided that it was an absolute necessity to join him outdoors. A little sunscreen and a hat later, we were outdoors watching my husband, Josh, mow.
Aiden excitedly waved, bounced and squealed until he got his father’s attention. Once he’d stopped the mower I offered to switch with him and finish the lawn, however, they both had other ideas. A few minutes later Josh was mowing the lawn with Aiden on his hip, both with grins big enough to light up a room.
I reached in my back pocket for my camera which was no longer there. I jogged into the house and up to Aiden’s room where I’d last had it but it was nowhere to be found. Not one to be thwarted when it comes to photographs, I grabbed my 35mm camera out of the closet and ran back outside.
Father & Aiden
They were so cute together, father and son, pushing the mower around the yard like it was the only thing in the world. I got photo after photo of Aiden’s excitement and Josh’s proud smile as our little boy tried to hold onto the handle and run the mower himself. It was quite the bonding experience. Aiden wouldn’t let me take him in while Josh finished and then later in the weekend every time he heard a mower he got very excited and had to climb on his Dad.
I wasn’t surprised that the pictures turned out great; my 35mm never let me down before its retirement. The real trouble was finding someplace that still develops film because the one hour photo I had been using for the past decade took out its wet lab six months ago. My fingers walked the yellow pages and I found a developer, although I wasn’t terribly impressed with the service, the pictures were still great. And after a much more thorough search I found my digital camera under Aiden’s blanket where one of us must have hidden it. I am digitally equipped once more to catch each magic moment with our wonderful son.
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Father’s Day Project
June 29, 2009
There are few things that show your love like a personalized photo gift. Taking the time to select a special memory, the one that will invoke the exact response you want in the recipient, illustrates a level of caring that ordinary gifts don’t achieve. With today’s technology you can turn a precious photo into just about anything that you can imagine.
Father’s Day snuck up on me just a little bit. I had the perfect gift picked out for my Dad and potentially the perfect picture. All of his grandchildren were visiting me the week before Father’s Day so I planned a little photo shoot. I threw a sheet over the couch and got out my camera.
Unfortunately in was a hot sunny day and corralling the children when the sprinkler outside was calling to them was unbelievably difficult. I stopped even trying to get them into coordinating outfits after they kept sneaking out the back door. In fact, it wasn’t long before I gave up on the living room photo set altogether and followed them outdoors.
Once they had exactly what they wanted, swimsuits and a sprinkler, they were much more amenable to my wishes. Happy as can be they hugged each other, huddled under the water, and splashed together in dozens of cute poses. Finally having the perfect photo in hand, and the kids in a bath, I rushed off to the computer to upload my photo and order the small keepsake box that I had been wanting for my father.
A few minutes later I was totally crushed when I discovered that I hadn’t taken into consideration the time the company needed to create the project. Even with next day shipping it would never arrive before Father’s Day. I ordered it anyways, determining to at least send candy or something on time so he would know I was thinking about him on Father’s Day.
The next day in the grocery checkout I found a photo keychain that you can load with fifty pictures. I was thrilled, I quickly took it home and loaded it with lots of family photos and sent it on its way. He absolutely loved both the photo gifts, personalized to his specific tastes and filled with love. The lesson I learned is that time is of the essence, start your project today.
Mother & Son
Michael Jackson – A Childhood Lost
June 27, 2009
The television is filled with talk about the life of Michael Jackson, about his star power, his impact on the music industry, his financial problems, his children and all of the minutiae of his life. Continuous talk of the accusations against him for child abuse abound, and people are coming out of the woodwork to render yet one more mindless observation.
The truth is Michael Jackson was a damaged human being, and now with his death the attacks against him not only continue, but are ugly. I am sure by now you are hearing the cruel jokes about Michael and his past, raw, uncouth, unkind and simply nasty.
And what, if anything, did this poor man do to deserve this treatment? Many forget that after nearly 15 years of litigation, dragging his reputation and name through the courts, bankrupting him and forcing him to divest himself of his prized “Neverland Ranch” where he entertained children with all kinds of disease, and treated them with respect and kindness, he was left penniless and broken.
Which brings me to the point of this post.
As child photographers, and yes even as parents, we need to respect children, honor their privacy and space, and keep them safe. If you post their photos on the internet, be sure to not disclose where they live, their names or anything that can identify them to predators. If you enter them in a cute kid contest to win a scholarship that is O.K., but don’t promote their careers. Be careful and watch over them, protect them and make sure you keep them safe at all times.
I wish we could say that Michael Jackson’s parents did that for him, but it is clear we can’t. Putting him out in the limelight from the age of 5, monetizing him and robbing him of his childhood no doubt had a profound effect on his life as an adult.
As parents and child photographers we should be sad at the passing of this poor man, and use the tragic lesson of his life to remind us to take care of our own precious little ones.
Betty, Child Photographer
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Be Prepared
June 26, 2009
When it comes to photography I try to keep the Boy Scout motto and always be prepared. I have a small digital camera that I try to keep on me at all times. Granted life often trips me up and I have to run around the house trying to find the last place I had it, so I can get pictures of my son covered in his first Oreo or playing with his favorite toy.
It is always hardest to remember to slip it in my purse when I’m just jetting out for a quick shopping trip. Luckily, this week it was there when I needed it. I captured the cutest pictures of my little savvy shopper. Aiden sat in the cart at Carter’s, calm and patient as can be, just checking tag after tag. It was so adorable to see him coolly entertaining himself and looking like he was twenty years older and trying to find a bargain.
Without disturbing his peaceful demeanor I fired off a dozen shots of his thoughtful face as he comparison shopped. I got another three as he delightfully analyzed the sticker that the sales lady gave him. A few pictures of him raiding my purse are all I need to complete some adorable shopping themed scrapbook pages. I even used one of the pictures to make a birthday card for my Aunt Dale, the ultimate shopper. I have no doubt she will love it.
Without the camera I doubt I would have remembered those moments, precious as they were, long enough to share them. It’s interesting that when you capture a moment with a photo, you really do capture it. It is there to stimulate your memory whenever you need it. By actually taking out the camera you are acknowledging that the moment is something that you want to remember. You just have to keep a camera handy to catch those moments and supplement your memories.
Scrapbook Photo Keeper
Competitive Parenting
June 25, 2009
The contest of choice for new parents is the beautiful baby contest. Having a baby makes you feel like the contestants of Survivor and Amazing Race have nothing on you. Twenty hours of labor preceded and followed by months of sleep deprivation doesn’t compare with eating a couple of bugs or taking a zip line across a canyon. But with your new little one in tow you won’t find time to do any of those now seemingly simple things. However, your greatest accomplishment is right there riding on your hip.
Those six minutes of uninterrupted naptime you are promised each day is exactly enough time to enter a baby contest. In fact you will probably have two or three minutes left over to squeeze in a shower. You just take a picture of your adorable child, that is probably already on your computer, upload it with your name, email and maybe a caption. Some are free; others have a low entrance fee that is compensated for by gifts.
I’ve done a lot of things in my life, even some that I am very proud of, but my ten month old miracle is by far my finest accomplishment. His smile lights up the room. I have entered him in several beautiful baby contests as much for his sake as mine. The prizes are child oriented like scholarships which would help his college fund immensely.
There is another draw to the contests; talent agents use them to scout children for advertisers. I was just notified that Pottery Barn is looking for child models this month. That could be my child or yours. It is just human nature to compare everything. You eagerly await your doctor to tell you what percentile your child falls into and you glance at the other kids in the playgroup to see who is bigger.
Now you don’t even need to leave the house to check out other kids and take pride in the fact that your baby is cuter. You can judge others from the comfort of your own home while professionals are judging your little one. As your baby grows and becomes even more beautiful you can keep entering. The competition is calling, don’t wait to enter.
Baby Photo Contest Entry
Christy
